10 Things You Should Always Keep To Yourself, चीजें जो आपको हमेशा अपने पास रखनी चाहिए
some things are better left unsaid. If you share everything about yourself with others, you can say things that you probably shouldn't.
You know… a lot. There is nothing wrong with keeping some things to yourself, and it is actually better.
Sometimes, keeping things safe can also be helpful in creating success! So, here are the things that you should always keep with you!
1. The biggest goal
Things you should always keep with you
If you have big goals, it is not possible to share them with others. You are more likely to get them that way.
This can be very difficult because you can be super excited about them, but when you work hard to reach these goals, other people's opinions can cause confusion.
And opinions are relative and different for everyone. It is also interesting to note, that studies on goal-setting have shown that telling people about your goals and then receiving praise for setting them can produce your brain the endorphins that reach the goal. is.
It makes you feel like you have already achieved something, and then you do not work as hard to reach your goal.
2. Good deeds
Things you should always keep with you
Try not to talk too much about the good things you have done to others. This can easily make you feel arrogant and self-serving.
Those who can see your kindness need no further explanation. And if you are doing good things only to brag about yourself, does that even matter? Always be kind and courteous.
3. Personal life
Things you should always keep with you
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Your personal life is your own business. There are some things that are better in themselves, such as what you do under the sheet, your religious life and your bad habits.
Telling others about your personal things will open you to judgment and criticism. By keeping some aspects of your life a mystery, you will come into a lot of classrooms and become a person of much respect.
4. Your Money
Things you should always keep with you
Some people have it better than others, and you may or may not be one of the lucky ones. If you are it's great
But it is not wise to reduce your wealth too much and it is best if you keep your family property with you.
Money can corrupt friends and relatives, and when you have a lot, the people around you are jealous.
If you have it, enjoy it and feel good about it, but don't brag about it. Your financial situation is not related to anyone, but you.
5. Life Darshan
Things you should always keep with you
Everyone needs to believe in order to get something through the day. However, the things that give relief are different for everyone.
For this reason, your personal preferences and beliefs belong to you alone. Do not spend your precious time thinking like others.
6. Family problems
Things you should always keep with you
All families have drama. But these are not things that you should share with others.
Also, the more you talk about your family problems, the more difficult it becomes.
It is also very insulting to share your family conflicts with others and it devalues you as a person.
The solution of problems in the house is the best in the house. Of course, if something is wrong, it is okay to tell people who are close to you, because they can provide some assistance.
7. Secret of Others
Things you should always keep with you
Do yourself a favor. Do not be a talker about the private lives of others. Do not gossip about them. Just remember to own your own business.
If someone keeps confidential information with you, it is your duty to, morally, keep their secrets.
If you share this information with someone else, the trust is broken and the relationship will be broken.
Now, there are exceptions ... if the situation is life-threatening or endangering someone's life.
8. Fear and weakness
Things you should always keep with you
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There is fear and weakness in everyone and sharing these things will not comfort you.
In fact, people enjoy seeing other people's weaknesses. So do not feed them.
You can study on your fears and weaknesses, or if it is not working, get some professional help.
9. Outrage about the past, Bad thinking and memories about your past :
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Things you should always keep with you
The past is not going to help by frequent digging. Although past experiences can easily affect today, do not define these moments that you are in.
The best thing is that you can express yourself at this time. In this way you can stop past regrets and resentment.
Forgive others for this. Go ahead and let it go!
10. Your talent
Things you should always keep with you
This is something you can share with others. However, if you have special talents, do not talk about them constantly.
Talk about them only when the time is right. Actions speak louder than words.
The conclusion
Wherever you can. Don't get me wrong I'm not suggesting that you separate yourself from the world.
But, you must have certain limits that should not be exceeded, because no matter how kind people may be, they are unpredictable.
And no matter how big the circle of people around you, in the end, we are all on our own. Thanks for reading!
You know… a lot. There is nothing wrong with keeping some things to yourself, and it is actually better.
Sometimes, keeping things safe can also be helpful in creating success! So, here are the things that you should always keep with you!
1. The biggest goal
Things you should always keep with you
If you have big goals, it is not possible to share them with others. You are more likely to get them that way.
This can be very difficult because you can be super excited about them, but when you work hard to reach these goals, other people's opinions can cause confusion.
And opinions are relative and different for everyone. It is also interesting to note, that studies on goal-setting have shown that telling people about your goals and then receiving praise for setting them can produce your brain the endorphins that reach the goal. is.
It makes you feel like you have already achieved something, and then you do not work as hard to reach your goal.
2. Good deeds
Things you should always keep with you
Try not to talk too much about the good things you have done to others. This can easily make you feel arrogant and self-serving.
Those who can see your kindness need no further explanation. And if you are doing good things only to brag about yourself, does that even matter? Always be kind and courteous.
3. Personal life
Things you should always keep with you
...
Your personal life is your own business. There are some things that are better in themselves, such as what you do under the sheet, your religious life and your bad habits.
Telling others about your personal things will open you to judgment and criticism. By keeping some aspects of your life a mystery, you will come into a lot of classrooms and become a person of much respect.
4. Your Money
Things you should always keep with you
Some people have it better than others, and you may or may not be one of the lucky ones. If you are it's great
But it is not wise to reduce your wealth too much and it is best if you keep your family property with you.
Money can corrupt friends and relatives, and when you have a lot, the people around you are jealous.
If you have it, enjoy it and feel good about it, but don't brag about it. Your financial situation is not related to anyone, but you.
5. Life Darshan
Things you should always keep with you
Everyone needs to believe in order to get something through the day. However, the things that give relief are different for everyone.
For this reason, your personal preferences and beliefs belong to you alone. Do not spend your precious time thinking like others.
6. Family problems
Things you should always keep with you
All families have drama. But these are not things that you should share with others.
Also, the more you talk about your family problems, the more difficult it becomes.
It is also very insulting to share your family conflicts with others and it devalues you as a person.
The solution of problems in the house is the best in the house. Of course, if something is wrong, it is okay to tell people who are close to you, because they can provide some assistance.
7. Secret of Others
Things you should always keep with you
Do yourself a favor. Do not be a talker about the private lives of others. Do not gossip about them. Just remember to own your own business.
If someone keeps confidential information with you, it is your duty to, morally, keep their secrets.
If you share this information with someone else, the trust is broken and the relationship will be broken.
Now, there are exceptions ... if the situation is life-threatening or endangering someone's life.
8. Fear and weakness
Things you should always keep with you
..
There is fear and weakness in everyone and sharing these things will not comfort you.
In fact, people enjoy seeing other people's weaknesses. So do not feed them.
You can study on your fears and weaknesses, or if it is not working, get some professional help.
9. Outrage about the past, Bad thinking and memories about your past :
,
Things you should always keep with you
The past is not going to help by frequent digging. Although past experiences can easily affect today, do not define these moments that you are in.
The best thing is that you can express yourself at this time. In this way you can stop past regrets and resentment.
Forgive others for this. Go ahead and let it go!
10. Your talent
Things you should always keep with you
This is something you can share with others. However, if you have special talents, do not talk about them constantly.
Talk about them only when the time is right. Actions speak louder than words.
The conclusion
Wherever you can. Don't get me wrong I'm not suggesting that you separate yourself from the world.
But, you must have certain limits that should not be exceeded, because no matter how kind people may be, they are unpredictable.
And no matter how big the circle of people around you, in the end, we are all on our own. Thanks for reading!
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